I am learning to say No to things that I dont agree with or that are not good for me. 

I have always thought of myself as being blunt but, when it comes to saying No, its tough.

Because, there is this fear of hurting someone's feelings. 

There is also this fear that since you are in disagreement with someone, maybe what you are thinking is not right. 

And so I said no to someone, who I know is not ideal for me. Hes a great guy, but just not for me.