Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Forgiving - 8 steps to let it go!

On the tracks of forgiveness...

Step 1 : Add him back...

Step 2 : Talk to him...

Step 3 : Take out the frustration, the disappointment, the mistrust at the source........

Step 4: Realize that we all are humans and make mistakes...

Step 5 : Become acquaintances..

Step 6 : Check the level of bitterness

Step 7 : Seek the path of forgiveness (Refer step 3 and 4)

Step 8 : Forgive and forget and move on...


For now....Step 1 - Check.

Dont know how long will it take to complete all the steps, but I am on the right path...coz as someone has said..

Forgiveness is not something we do for other people, we do it for ourselves - to GET WELL and MOVE ON 

Trust in thee...

6 comments:

Beyond said...

It is good that you can forgive..
I don't believe in forgiveness, the only thing I can do is let go and thy will be done.

Harshad Mehta said...

yes, to move on.

well done.

Haris Gulzar said...

I'd say the 4th step is extremely important in this list... Realizing that we all are humans and it is natural for us to make mistakes...

Aman said...

@ Rajat...if we dont forgive, then we havent really closed a chapter..


@ Harshad..thanks for your support as always!

@ Haris...I agree...sometimes we are too harsh on ourselves...

@ Anon..thanks!

arvind said...

ho its nice..

but why to bitter at all - if the heart is always flowering towards another loving heart?

Aman said...

@ Arvind..
you have a very positive attitude I must say! thanks for the support!